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The Courage to Show Up Online and Share Your Creative Work (Even When You're Afraid of Being Judged)

  • Writer: Sonia
    Sonia
  • Aug 5, 2025
  • 3 min read

Updated: Aug 10, 2025

In a world where everyone seems to have an opinion, showing up online and being your authentic self can feel like one of the most vulnerable things you’ll ever do.

Whether you're a content creator, coach, healer, or simply someone with a message to share — there comes a time when you’re faced with this inner question:


“Can I really be myself online without fear of judgement?”


And the answer? Yes. But it takes courage. A lot of it.


Being Yourself Online Isn’t Always Easy — But It’s Worth It


The digital space is a powerful tool. It allows you to share your voice, amplify your creativity, connect with soul-aligned people, and build a platform around your passion or purpose.

But if you’ve ever felt nervous about posting something personal…

Deleted and restarted your account more than once…

Or silenced your truth because someone close to you once called you “too much”...

You're not alone.

When I first started my journey of building my business presence online, sharing my writing, blogging and or even a picture of an outfit that I felt good about — I was so worried about what people would think. Especially those closest to me.

One person compared me to a spiritual narcissist just because I was sharing tips on self-growth.

Another implied I was seeking attention by posting selfies or celebrating milestones, after I posted up a picture of my husband and I celebrating our anniversary dinner.

And honestly? It hurt. I wanted to hide.

Because inside, I didn’t feel like someone confident or loud — I felt like someone who was just trying to find her voice.


But Here’s What I’ve Learned About Taking Up Space Online:


  • People will judge.

  • People will project.

  • And most of the time? It has nothing to do with you.


Sometimes the people who know you best struggle the most with your growth.

Meanwhile, strangers online will become your biggest supporters.

When you start sharing your light, your work, your art — it’s going to trigger some people. Especially those who were more comfortable with you playing small.

But guess what?

That’s not a bad thing.

Because if you're not repelling anyone, you're probably not attracting either.

Trying to be liked by everyone turns you into a version of yourself that’s watered down — vanilla, safe, and unseen.

And you weren’t born to blend in.


This Is Your Reminder to Keep Showing Up


Even when it's uncomfortable.

Even when you're tired.

Even when it feels like no one gets it.

Because the truth is, showing up online is a form of healing.

It helps you grow.

It helps you find your voice.

And most importantly — it inspires others to do the same.

You’ll find your people along the way.

The aligned community.

The souls who see your light and say, “Thank you for showing up. Because now I feel like I can, too.”


If You're Holding Back Out of Fear of Being Judged...


Let me remind you of a few things:


  • The people who unfollow or block you were never for you in the first place.

  • Hiding your happiness won’t protect you — it will only disconnect you from joy.

  • You were never meant to shrink just to make others comfortable.


And when you reach the end of your life, what will matter more:

That you protected your image? Or that you shared your gifts with the world?

You have something meaningful to offer.

Whether it's your creativity, your voice, your wisdom, your story — it deserves to be seen.

Not for the likes or comments, but because it’s part of your soul’s expression.


Final Thoughts: Keep Taking Up Space


Keep showing up in your own timing, in your own way, and always in your truth.

This is sacred work.

Even if it’s just a caption or a reel or a blog post — if it comes from your heart, it matters.

Let your light trigger those who aren’t ready for it — and inspire those who are.

You don’t have to be perfect.

You just have to be real.

So post the thing.

Say what’s on your heart.

Celebrate your wins.

Share your message.


Because when you shine, you give others permission to shine too.

 
 
 

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